Alessandra Battioni's Experience
A door always open,
for everyone. For the talibés, small and large, for the toubabs (white
people) who are passing by, for the staff who perform their tasks
perfectly every day, for the children of the neighborhood, for the people
who make the night rounds, for others who just want to take a look.
An open door that reveals an entire world, a world of love, common
purpose and mutual aid. A world of heat, sweat, a whiff of the lime
trees, dusty sand and the odor of disinfectant.
A world of looks full of hope and love, and soccer balls patched up
with a bit of scotch tape because a soccer ball is always a soccer ball,
and it is always time for a game.
A world of green and orange mats, which also serve as mattresses for
some who woke up too early and are tired, and can rest here in the
shade and in safety.
A place where you can talk with everyone from five-year-olds who want
to cuddle to adults who want to exchange ideas, you who know very
little French but, somehow, we still understand each other and we
talk about everything.
A place where games are repeated endlessly without boredom and always
with the enthusiasm of the first time; there are red and green jerseys,
a ball, two bottles, a big circle and it is always game-on.
A place where everyone can receive medical care, where the infirmary
is always open and where, in addition to curing wounds and ailments,
there is always the respect, courtesy and caring of those who do this
work with joy and love. A place where the talibés can take a shower,
always with a bit of soap for them, and where they can wash their
clothes with their "Alessandra, madar!” (Madar is the soap they use).
A place where they can brush their teeth by lining up to the beat of
the music of the djembe drums as they laugh and joke with friends.
A place where they can watch a movie sitting secluded from the forces
that control most of their lives; but here, yes, here they can do it,
and they can learn English without even realizing it by simply singing.
A sheltering place at night for those who don’t return to their daara;
in fact, people go out in the night and look for children and, with
kindness and love, tell them that sleeping in the street is dangerous.
They offer them a bed and a safe place for the night, trying to
understand their problems and their dreams.
A place where food is not lacking for anyone, ever.
A place where there are offices with people who struggle with documents
and Excel files so that things work, accounts are balanced, and everything
is made possible.
A place where you feel at home, wrapped in love and caring. Caring also
sees dermatitis, infected wounds, bare feet, torn clothes; caring tells
you that it is not easy, that the problem is endemic and the solutions
difficult. It is a place that enters into your heart to stay there
forever, but also into your mind to seek solutions, to seek funding, to
seek collaborations. A place where children call you by the name of
"Alessandra cards" and you play the umpteenth round of Memory so that
the cards now are all damaged and you know that none of this matters,
because it is our game.
You look around you one last time and you breathe in this spirit of
mutual help, this desire to share, this common search for solutions,
and you smile. Happy with this happy experience, happy with each
moment, infinitely difficult moments when you wanted to scream that it
is unjust that a child should face certain things, and moments
extraordinarily joyful and simply accepting.
And you thank everyone. You turn to leave one last time (for this
month at least, then who knows ... Insha'Allah) and you think that it
is no longer just a place, but a part of you.
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