Joy Bowers' Experience
I find it nearly impossible to put in to words everything that was my experience
in Saint Louis with Maison de la Gare. When I close my eyes and take myself
back, I picture the love of my host family, the mother who cared for me when I
fell ill in the first week. All the different faces of the many children, their
excitement and eagerness to play, for attention and to learn. The incredible
older talibés living at the center, all our conversations, the crazy party I
threw for them; we danced all night drunk on adrenaline. My daily walk to the
center from my host family’s home, the beautiful sea, the Langue de Barbarie,
all the colorful pirogues (fishing boats) and of course, in between all this,
the life, the color and the love and warmth of all the Senegalese people I met,
and the poverty and unimaginable suffering of little children.
As much as one can read about the talibés and the work of Maison de la Gare,
I don’t think anything can prepare someone for the first few days in Saint
Louis. The realization that one must live alongside this bizarre and
unimaginably cruel situation and accept that the thefts of these children’s
childhoods is a part of everyday life. Perhaps most humbling, that most people
in Saint Louis are powerless to do anything but live alongside it. It is so
very far from stepping outside my flat in England, where children would never
be confronted with something as distressing as this, let alone be forced to
experience it.
In my first hours as a volunteer, I was approached by two slightly older boys,
Kalidou and Souleymane. They asked me if I was English would I teach them
English? They had a great starting level. I was happy to and from then on,
every evening Monday to Friday, I taught a beginners’ and an advanced English class. More students arrived. I spent the hours in the office later in the evenings planning lessons.
I was continually impressed by the intelligence and passion for learning of
many of the pupils, especially since none of them had been to school. Being
able to help them learn new words and answer their grammar questions and watch
them progress was wonderful. I was also aware, through the relationships I
built up with these older boys, how alike they were to kids of their age in
the UK. We are all so similar and I hope that many, many more volunteers will
follow me and continue teaching them and helping them improve. Their English
abilities have opened the door of education that is the internet, and that is
the way forward for them.
I had brought with me a set of theatre masks, designed to encourage play and
creativity as well as emotional expression. We had some fun and interesting
lessons with talibés of all ages. However, watching some of the smaller kids
interact with the masks, it was clear how developmentally behind they were
compared to kids I had taught before. I enjoyed greatly blasting Senegalese
music from my speaker and setting up tables with the little kids drawing,
making crafts and playing games together.
I would urge anyone with a passion for helping others and a desire to become
a Maison de la Gare volunteer to do so keeping in mind the weight of the
situation and the ways in which you will affect many children’s lives. You
will become a glimpse of stability and care and then literally disappear.
Stay as long as possible, two months was what I was able to afford. I wish
I could have stayed longer. The more time you can spend building up
relationships and working out how you can make a difference, the better.
Most importantly the contribution to the center as a volunteer is vital to
its invaluable work in fighting for the rights of children and maintaining a
safe space for them.
I hope everyone at Maison de le Gare, the staff like Abdou who were so
welcoming and supportive, the local volunteers like Lala whose generosity
and commitment to the talibés is remarkable, and all the older kids who
showed me around Saint Louis and became great friends, know how much I
appreciate you and am grateful for having you in my life.
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Please click here for the
complete article that Joy prepared about her experiences. It is illustrated
with many photos from her time as a Maison de la Gare volunteer.